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Encyclopedia of the Exquisite

Tuesday, January 4th, 2011

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I picked up this beautiful book, The Encyclopedia of the Exquisite:  An Anecdotal History of Elegant Delights by Jessica Kerwin Jenkins, at an Anthropologie store and bought it not only out of interest but because I was unable to put it down. Not only does it define words like Xenia, which describes ancient Greek hospitality, but it also tells the story of the history behind every exquisite thing in the book such as champagne, unicorns and twilight – the period between daylight and darkness not the movie :)  A few of my favorite fashionistas describe the book perfectly. Here is what they had to say about it:

“A delightful ode to everyday elegance that brims with tales showing how beauty can be found in the most unlikely places. Encyclopedia of the Exquisite has the potential to make our lives that much more interesting. It left me truly inspired.”  – Sarah Jessica Parker

 ”A beautifully researched and written book. Every story – whether on the origins of badminton or the art of Renaissance sotelties – is fascinating and inspiring. I kept turning the page, wanting to learn more.”  – Tory Burch

 

Book Review

Sunday, November 7th, 2010

101 Things You Should Do Before Your Kids Leave Home

I recently picked up 101 Things You Should Do Before Your Kids Leave Home because I thought it would be helpful when planning activities to do with my son, Brody. The purpose of the book is to “help you incorporate fun and meaningful activities into your everyday life together.” I remember doing many of these activities myself as a child. Here are a few of my favorites ideas from the book:

-Plant a family tree
I love the idea of picking a special place for the tree and taking Brody to see it occasionally so he can watch its growth.

-Spend the night at the zoo
Many zoos offer special overnight packages. I love the idea of me and Brody camping out in the zoo and getting to observe the animals sleeping and waking the next morning.

-Dance together in the ocean waves

-Explore the backyard with a magnifying glass
Who would have thought? I’m always amazed by how creative children are. They love to explore and learn, and I think this is a great activity for that.

- Serve in a soup kitchen
When Brody gets older I plan on taking him to volunteer, which will hopefully teach him the power of giving and help him appreciate how fortunate he is.

-Throw a dart at a map
Throw a dart at a map of somewhere near or far and take your child to that place to explore it. I love the adventurous nature of this activity.

-Dig for dinosaur bones
Search online for various archaeological adventures available.

-Take a nighttime stroll through the Galaxy
Go online and learn how to identify familiar stellar formations if you don’t know them.

- Swim with the dolphins

-Camp out in the wild
This will be really tough for me as “the wild” terrifies me, but even if we just set up a tent in the backyard, I think it’s a great experience for children.

-Fly a kite
My mom used to to take me on the beach to fly kites. I don’t know why it took this book to make me think of doing it with my son.

-Mold footprints and handprints
Why didn’t I think of this before? There is a pottery place nearby where we can do this, and it will be something I’ll be so grateful to have when Brody is older.

-Create and bury a Time Capsule
Just make sure to bury it somewhere you can dig it up in several years.

I love the simplicity of many of these activities. I think my husband and I will have almost as much fun doing these things as our son.

Anthropology of an American Girl

Friday, August 27th, 2010

Anthropolgy of an American Girl

In the last few months I have read at least six new books with the intention of reviewing them here. They all received a lot of buzz, but after reading them I couldn’t review a single one because I didn’t feel they were good enough to recommend, and I don’t like to bash anything. There is nothing I hate more than going out to buy a book because of some good reviews all to find that the book is mediocre at best. When I started Anthropology of an American Girl, I was feeling like this was going to be another disappointing attempt to find a great book. Several pages into it I was bored. I couldn’t get into it, but stuck with it anyway and am glad I did. Some of the lines and excerpts from the book are so good you can read them over and over. The book reads like a great piece of poetry all the way through. You find yourself savoring each page rather than speed reading to get to the end to find out what happens. Here is one of my favorite excerpts from the book:

I wished to vanish also but I was bound by the things that professed to designate me- family, friends, school, culture, country. How had I fallen under their influence, when these things referred to something other than what I felt myself to be, when the care I received was diluted by their self interest?

I was no prisoner, and yet, when faced with an occasion for determination, I was not to follow the lead of my will, but to endure in tedious familiarity. What is freedom when you are too beholden to act spontaneously? What is desire that is absolute but untimely? Or obligation when you have ignored your soul’s conviction? Is sacrifice really a virtue when in your heart you feel not a shred of devotion?

Here are some other great reviews on the book:

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Dr. Seuss

Sunday, May 30th, 2010

Oh, the Places You'll Go!

Every night I read to my son before bed. He loves to be read to and has a nice collection of books. While reading Oh the Places You’ll Go by Dr. Seuss one night, I came to a part (it’s highlighted below) that really embodied what I was going through at the time and it was nice to hear it in the words of Dr. Seuss. I wanted to post this here, because I think it’s a great book for people of all ages.

Oh, the Places You’ll Go!
by Dr. Seuss

Congratulations!
Today is your day.
You’re off to Great Places!
You’re off and away!

You have brains in your head.
You have feet in your shoes.
You can steer yourself any direction you choose.
You’re on your own. And you know what you know. And YOU are the guy who’ll decide where to go.

You’ll look up and down streets. Look’em over with care. About some you will say, “I don’t choose to go there.” With your head full of brains and your shoes full of feet, you’re too smart to go down a not-so-good street.

And you may not find any you’ll want to go down. In that case, of course, you’ll head straight out of town. It’s opener there in the wide open air.

Out there things can happen and frequently do to people as brainy and footsy as you.

And when things start to happen, don’t worry. Don’t stew. Just go right along. You’ll start happening too.

Oh! The Places You’ll Go!

You’ll be on your way up!
You’ll be seeing great sights!
You’ll join the high fliers who soar to high heights.

You won’t lag behind, because you’ll have the speed. You’ll pass the whole gang and you’ll soon take the lead. Wherever you fly, you’ll be best of the best. Wherever you go, you will top all the rest.

Except when you don’t.
Because, sometimes, you won’t.

I’m sorry to say so but, sadly, it’s true that Bang-ups and Hang-ups can happen to you. 

You can get all hung up in a prickle-ly perch. And your gang will fly on. You’ll be left in a Lurch.

You’ll come down from the Lurch with an unpleasant bump. And the chances are, then, that you’ll be in a Slump.

And when you’re in a Slump, you’re not in for much fun. Un-slumping yourself is not easily done.

You will come to a place where the streets are not marked. Some windows are lighted. But mostly they’re darked. A place you could sprain both your elbow and chin! Do you dare to stay out? Do you dare to go in? How much can you lose? How much can you win?

And if you go in, should you turn left or right…or right-and-three-quarters? Or, maybe, not quite? Or go around back and sneak in from behind? Simple it’s not, I’m afraid you will find, for a mind-maker-upper to make up his mind.

You can get so confused that you’ll start in to race down long wiggled roads at a break-necking pace and grind on for miles across weirdish wild space, headed, I fear, toward a most useless place.

The Waiting Place…for people just waiting.

Waiting for a train to go or a bus to come, or a plane to go or the mail to come, or the rain to go or the phone to ring, or the snow to snow or waiting around for a Yes or No or waiting for their hair to grow. Everyone is just waiting.

Waiting for the fish to bite or waiting for wind to fly a kite or waiting around for Friday night or waiting, perhaps, for their Uncle Jake or a pot to boil, or a Better Break or a string of pearls, or a pair of pants or a wig with curls, or Another Chance. Everyone is just waiting.

No! That’s not for you!
Somehow you’ll escape all that waiting and staying. You’ll find the bright places where Boom Bands are playing. With banner flip-flapping, once more you’ll ride high! Ready for anything under the sky. Ready because you’re that kind of a guy!

Oh, the places you’ll go! There is fun to be done! There are points to be scored. There are games to be won. And the magical things you can do with that ball will make you the winning-est winner of all. Fame! You’ll be famous as famous can be, with the whole wide world watching you win on TV.

Except when they don’t. Because, sometimes, they won’t.

I’m afraid that some times you’ll play lonely games too. Games you can’t win ‘cause you’ll play against you.

All Alone!
Whether you like it or not, Alone will be something you’ll be quite a lot.

And when you’re alone, there’s a very good chance you’ll meet things that scare you right out of your pants. There are some, down the road between hither and yon, that can scare you so much you won’t want to go on.

But on you will go though the weather be foul. On you will go though your enemies prowl. On you will go though the Hakken-Kraks howl. Onward up many a frightening creek, though your arms may get sore and your sneakers may leak. On and on you will hike. And I know you’ll hike far and face up to your problems whatever they are.

You’ll get mixed up, of course, as you already know. You’ll get mixed up with many strange birds as you go. So be sure when you step. Step with care and great tact and remember that Life’s a Great Balancing Act. Just never forget to be dexterous and deft. And never mix up your right foot with your left.

And will you succeed?
Yes! You will, indeed!
(98 and ¾ percent guaranteed.)

Kid, you’ll move mountains!
So…be your name Buxbaum or Bixby or Bray or Mordecai Ale Van Allen O’Shea, you’re off to Great Places!
Today is your day!
Your mountain is waiting.
So…get on your way!

Inspiration

Thursday, May 20th, 2010

Keep Calm and Carry On Plato Quote

I have always loved the “Keep Calm and Carry On” saying. It’s kind of the story of my life. If only I could always “Keep Calm”. Anyway, I recently bought a small book with this saying on the cover. It’s full of inspirational quotes. I particularily loved this quote so I wanted to share it with you.

Book Review

Friday, May 14th, 2010

A Short Guide to a Happy Life by Anna Quindlen

Recently while unpacking the boxes and boxes of books that I never had room to store in my Manhattan apartment, I came across a copy of A Short Guide to a Happy Life by Anna Quindlen. I started flipping through it thinking, “Happy life tips are always a good thing to reread.” As I was reading, some of the authors words were so beautiful that I decided to jot them down and write them here for the “Other Stuff” section. The author talks about how busily we move through life and how much beauty we miss in everyday things. Here are few excerpts:

“Get a life in which you notice the smell of Salt Water pushing itself on a breeze over the dunes.”
“How a red hawk circles over a pond and a stand of pines.”
“The way the melodies of a symphony rise and falls and disappears and rises again.”
“Look around at Azaleas making fuchsia starbursts in Spring.”
“[Look at] a full moon hanging silver in a black sky on a cold night.”
“Shut up, listen, laugh.”
“Keep still and be present.”

Remarkable Creatures Book Review

Sunday, January 31st, 2010

Remarkable Creatures

When I read that Remarkable Creatures by Tracy Chevalier (author of Girl with a Pearl Earring) had been chosen by Elle Magazine readers as one of their “fiction picks for the month (of January)“, I had to check it out. I’m always in search of a book that will move me the way The Great Gatsby or To Kill a Mockingbird did, so after reading book after book, I decided to start reviewing all of them for my blog.

Remarkable Creatures is set in the 1800′s and centers around the true story of Mary Anning, an uneducated young girl from a poor family living in a small seaside town. Her friendship with a middle class spinster (shocking that at age 25 you can be considered a spinster!? Glad things have changed bit), Elizabeth Philpot. Mary is struck by lightning as a baby and seems to possess a gift for spotting creatures (fossils); Elizabeth recognizes this gift and forms a friendship with her based on their mutual interest in fossil finding. Mary uses her fossil finds as a way to bring in money for the family, while Elizabeth collects and archives her finds. I enjoyed this book, but I didn’t appreciate it fully, until I read the postscript and realized how “real” the characters and their discoveries actually were.

The Happiness Project Book Review

Sunday, January 24th, 2010

The Happiness Project

Author Gretchen Rubin decided to start The Happiness Project, when after examining her life realized that although things are very good she isn’t as content and happy as she should be. She decided she needed to take a step back and learn how to appreciate life, and to define what happiness is to her. She wanted to let go of anxiety, guilt, and the never-ending “to do” list, so she embarked on this experiment and made a list of twelve “happiness projects”. She devoted one month to each of the twelve projects, which ranged from “Boost Energy” and getting more sleep to eating better and exercising to “Contemplating the Heavens” and becoming more spiritual by keeping a Gratitude Journal. She wrote her discoveries during each project and how they effected her happiness level. During one of the twelve projects she started a blog about her project.

While reading this book, I did a few of of the tasks the author does in search her “happiest self”. One project is devoted to organizing her life and getting rid of clutter, which seems to weigh her down. I love any excuse to de-clutter, so I got rid of 100 or so DVD and CD covers and put all the discs in a cd book, recycled 100 or so old mags/papers, organized all of my kitchen cupboards and drawers, and will begin the gigantic task of organizing my clothes (that could take a month). I have always appreciated order and organization in the home and believe it is a key to feeling less stressed. If the whole task seems too daunting try and do one drawer or area per day or week. I also was already in the habit of keeping a gratitude journal, which I downloaded right to my iPhone. Keeping a gratitude journal is so simple but helps you realize all the little things (like my sons laughter) that can be such a big source of happiness. One of my favorite things in the book were the quotes. Two of my particular favorites was this one by Samuel Johnson, “As the Spanish Proverb says, He, who would bring home the wealth of the Indies, must carry the wealth of the Indies with him.” And this quote written by Epicurus, which I believe sums up the quest for happiness very well, “We must exercise ourselves in the things which bring happiness, since, if that be present, we have everything, and if that be absent, all of our actions are directed toward attaining it.”

While Elizabeth Gilbert’s quest for happiness in East Pray Love is more “me”, I think this book’s practical approach on finding happiness through a series of little projects will resonate with readers and help them in their own quest for happiness.

Book Review

Monday, December 21st, 2009

I LOVE to read! I like escaping from my life every now and then, and disappear into someone else’s life, love, happiness and drama. I like to see things through their eyes and come away from the book feeling an understanding about something I may not have known anything about, even if it’s just a different point of view. I recently finished Eat Pray Love. I loved Elizabeth Gilbert‘s style of writing and the humor she mixes in with just about everything she experiences. When she realizes the life she has chosen is not the one she wants to be living, she decides she must walk away from everything in search of happiness (don’t we all sometimes?). She takes a spiritual journey through three countries exploring a life based solely on pleasure in Italy, spirituality in India at an Ashram (The experiences she has during meditation are almost too good to believe. It inspired me to take up Kundalini Yoga.), and in the 3rd country, Bali, she wants to see if one can live a life filled with both pleasure and spirituality. Elizabeth brings the characters she meets along the way to life beautifully and seems to have a gift for getting to really know people. I never wanted this book to end. I even checked up on her on her website to see how she was doing. Can’t wait for the movie!

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The Sartorialist

Sunday, December 20th, 2009

The Sartorialist

I recently bought the fashion coffee table book The Sartorialist to add to my collection of fashion tomes. Scott Schuman, a fashion photographer was inspired to create the book after observing the “disconnect” between what he saw on the runways and what real fashionable people are wearing. The book contains hundreds of images of real people and a few fashion industry people displaying their street style. I loved reading the little bios, some funny and some inspirational, of the people featured in the book. I went through and selected my favorite looks and a few of my favorite bios.

I wanted to post this blog earlier in the week, but I asked the Twitter Giveaway Question: “What is your favorite fashion related blog?”, and many answered The Sartorialist so I thought it was appropriate to post this blog after the winner was announced.

The Sartorialist

Sunday Morning, Harlem

While I was preparing to take this gentleman’s picture I asked him about his fine summer suit, expecting to hear he’d had it for ever. Instead, he told me that ten years ago he was a drug dealer. When one of his customer couldn’t pay for her drugs, she threw this suit at him in payment.

Sunday Morning Harlem

Signs of Life, Paris

I was chatting with Susan after I took this picture and mentioned that I thought her hair was just beautiful – her best feature.

She thanked me and said that she had once lost her hair because of cancer. She now purposefully keeps it long because she feels it is such a gift to have it back and, for her, it’s a sign of life.

Signs of Life, Paris

First written October 23, 2009